Let us face facts, we all lose our cool, fly off the handle, get
ticked off, and have it up to here sometimes. In addition, sometimes we just
want to let people know we are angry. So, we want to tell them off, let them
have it, and really give them a piece of our minds.
Yes, there are many ways to express your anger in English.
However, English speakers are not alone in coming up with a number of ways to
let people know they’re mad. Indeed, Arabs, too, can also express their
anger in rather unique ways. (If you don’t believe us, then just take a taxi in
Amman during rush hour. Indeed, you’ll find no compliments in Arabic there.)
So, that’s what we will look at today – common Arabic words and
phrases used to express anger. However, in doing so, we know that some of you
came here just to learn some Arabic swear words. You think that it’ll be funny
or cool to use them. So, yeah, we might include a few of those as well. But
don’t expect much. After all, this is a family blog. So, without further ado,
let’s get started. (And maybe afterward, we’ll write a future blog post on
anger management in Arabic.)
Letting People Know You’re Angry
Maybe people just don’t get the hint. Your fist is clenched, your face is red, your brows are furrowed, and steam is coming out of your ears. Still, they ask, “Are you okay?”
Well, as a matter of fact, no, you’re NOT okay! You’re angry. But
how do you tell them in Arabic? Okay, calm down a little and we’ll show you.
First, you can start with these two phrases:
I’m
angry.
أَنا
غاضِب
/ʼanaa
ghaadhib/
I’m
furious.
أَنا
غاضِب بِشَكل كَبير
/ʼanaa
ghaadhib bshakl kabeer/
That’s
annoying.
هَذا
مُزعِج
/haTHaa
muziʻj/
Letting People Know You’re Angry at Them
Again, sometimes people just don’t get it, so you have to let them know that you’re angry at them. However, don’t let your anger get the best of you. So, try to start off in a polite and civil way:
What
you said made me angry.
ما
قُلتَهُ جَعَلَني غاضِب
/maa
qultahu jaʻalanee ghaadhib/
I don’t
feel good when you do that.
لا
أَشعُرُ بِالرَّاحَة عِندَما تَفْعَلُ ذلِكَ
/laa
ʼashuru birraaHah ʻindamaa tafʻalu THaalika/
What
are you looking at?
إِلى
ماذا تَنْظُرُ؟
/ʼilaa
maaTHaa tanDHuru/
It’s
none of your business.
هَذا
لَيسَ مِنْ شَأنِكَ
/haaTHaa
laysa min shaʼnika/
Get out
of my face.
أُغرُب
عَنْ وَجْهي
/ʼughrub
ʻan wajhee/
Letting Nosy People Know You’re Angry
Why do people have to get all up in your business? If you’re angry at somebody, there’s always that one person who has to get involved. So, here’s how to let them know to stay away:
What
you said made me angry.
ما
قُلتَهُ جَعَلَني غاضِب
/maa
qultahu jaʻalanee ghaadhib/
I don’t
feel good when you do that.
لا
أَشعُرُ بِالرَّاحَة عِندَما تَفْعَلُ ذلِكَ
/laa
ʼashuru birraaHah ʻindamaa tafʻalu THaalika/
What
are you looking at?
إِلى
ماذا تَنْظُرُ؟
/ʼilaa
maaTHaa tanDHuru/
It’s
none of your business.
هَذا
لَيسَ مِنْ شَأنِكَ
/haaTHaa
laysa min shaʼnika/
Get out
of my face.
أُغرُب
عَنْ وَجْهي
/ʼughrub ʻan wajhee/
Where’s the Beef? Right Here!
Now you’re so angry, like a race car in the red and you’re about to blow! For that, Let that other person know that they better be careful with the next words coming out of their mouth:
Watch your mouth.
انتَبِه
لِأَلفاظِكَ
/ʼintabih
liʼalfaaDHika/
You’re in
trouble now
أنتَ
بِمَأزِق الآن
/ʼanta
bimaʼziqin ilʼaan/
Back
off.
تَراجَعْ
/traajaʻ/
What
did you say to me?
ماذا
قُلْتَ لي؟
/maaTHaa
qulta lee/
The Blame Game
Sometimes people make mistakes and instead of taking responsibility, they’ll blame them on you. Go ahead and make them feel guilty for the wrong they did to you:
This is
your fault.
هَذا
خَطَأُكَ
/haaTHaa
khaTaʼuka/
I can’t
believe you did that.
لا
أُصَدِّقُ أنَّكَ فَعَلتَ ذلِكَ
/laa
ʼuSaddiqu ʼannaka faalta THaalika/
How
could you do this?
كَيفَ
تَفْعَلُ هَذا؟
/kayfa
tafʻalu haTHaa/
I’m
disappointed in you.
لَقَد
خابَ ظَنّي بِكَ
/laqad
khaaba DHannee bika/
What
were you thinking?
بِماذا
كُنْتَ تُفكِّرُ؟
/bimaaTHaa
kunta tufakkiru/
You
should be ashamed of yourself.
يَجِبُ
أَنْ تَخْجَلَ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ
/yajibu
ʼan takhjala min nafsika/
Bringing Out the Big Guns!
So, they still don’t get how badly they messed up, huh? Then, it’s time to load up on ammunition. Now, let us take a look at some common Arab swear words you can use at your own risk!
This is
your fault.
هَذا
خَطَأُكَ
/haaTHaa
khaTaʼuka/
I can’t
believe you did that.
لا
أُصَدِّقُ أنَّكَ فَعَلتَ ذلِكَ
/laa
ʼuSaddiqu ʼannaka faalta THaalika/
How
could you do this?
كَيفَ
تَفْعَلُ هَذا؟
/kayfa
tafʻalu haTHaa/
I’m
disappointed in you.
لَقَد
خابَ ظَنّي بِكَ
/laqad
khaaba DHannee bika/
What
were you thinking?
بِماذا
كُنْتَ تُفكِّرُ؟
/bimaaTHaa
kunta tufakkiru/
You
should be ashamed of yourself.
يَجِبُ
أَنْ تَخْجَلَ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ
/yajibu
ʼan takhjala min nafsika/
Again, these are very fun to learn and may sound silly in English.
However, calling somebody a donkey or ugly and stupid is very serious. Even if
you’re just kidding around, you’re Arab friends and colleagues won’t find it so
funny. So, no matter how angry you are, it’s best not to use these words, or
any words that can be seen as insulting.
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